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Friday Fluff

So… I’m going to honest here.  I have nothing to write about today.  Nothing.

I’m in a fab, it’s-almost-the-weekend mood, but my brain is just fuzzy from general contentment.  Plus I’ve been super busy from work, making sure we still would have a place to live on October 1st (we found a roommate, so HOORAY, we don’t have to to move), helping other people move, ramping up my workouts, being sore from said workouts, and just running around trying to get a few other things in order.  Also, I think maybe  got my ranting all out on Wednesday.  Whatever the case may be, I have nothing of importance to contribute today.

But these folks do!

Bess brought back her weekly Ferosh Female Fridays (which I LOVE, btw, because, well, how cool does that just SOUND?), and gave shoutouts to some lovely lady bloggers (including me!) for being fearless this week, and just kind of made me proud to be a woman who knows other women who support women. My lengthy sentences confusing you yet? Just check her out!

Laura and I must be on the same wavelength lately, because she’s talking body image and dismissing the silliness that is the BMI chart.  My favorite line? “I could weigh 105-119 pounds, as the charts suggest in “optimal weight” terms (ha!), but I’d look like a stick with a big fat wad of gum stuck to its lower half.  Or a kebob skewer stuck into a melon.  You know what I mean.”  Girl, I feel you on having a booty and thinking BMI truly is ‘a pile of poo’

Despite my raging sweet tooth, I rarely crave baked goods.  Until today, that is.  Rachel’s got me wanting to throw on my not-yet-purchased apron and whip up some of these white chocolate cupcakes while only speaking in double entendres.  And Jenna at EatLiveRun has got me craving something hot off the griddle with her whole wheat butternut squash pancakes, which I usually only do when staring at a diner menu on a Sunday morning after a rather late Saturday night.

Over at Hollaback Health, we’ve had a whole slew of awesome posts lately!  Read all of those, but start with AJ’s second installment in her set of guest posts, ‘I Call It Visibility,’ about her experience as a blogger with the intersecting identities of queer, vegan, and runner.  Which, appropriately enough, the name of her blog as well!

I’ve been thinking a lot about running lately and how I need to try some other exercises for a few months because I keep getting injured (well, hello, new possible case of plantar fasciitis, please meet old cases of tendonitis and a stress fracture) and because I keep SAYING I’m going to take a break, and I never do.  (Now it looks like I have to take a break, right during the BEST running weather in the midwest because I have really screwed up my feet).  Well, apparently, Ashley from Fashionably Fit has been thinking the same thing, because she rejoined a gym and has been having a love affair with the classes and their efficiency and they fact that they play nice with her joints.

Kristen’s post pretty much summed up my experience with weight loss in the past, and I felt like she was practically writing my story on her blog! Kudos to her for learning how to eat intuitively!  Still working on that one….

Last, but not least, Nicole’s post on Special K was so informative that I wish college me would have read because I was SOLD  on the low-cal Special K crap, not realizing that while I got skinny, I was putting some scary stuff in my body.  Also, I really think all of you will crack up at her title and the picture she posted to go along with it!

I like the idea of giving out a little link love to finish out the week, so happy reading!  And for the sake of discussion, since we all know I loooove talking, tell me what you’re doing this weekend– healthy or not! What fun stuff do you have planned?!

Sweating on the Cheap

So after Wednesday’s post on getting past your excuses for not working out, my friend Kira asked yet another great question:  ”Okay here’s another excuse … money. Say you get bored to death running (or get too many weird pains), but you can’t afford a gym membership or sports equipment. I personally would love to go to a climbing gym regularly but I can’t afford it. I would also love to hire a personal trainer, but clearly, same issue. Any thoughts on this one?”

Hang onto your money, girlfriend.

For some reason, even though I’m a semi-broke twenty something myself, this excuse didn’t even occur to me.  Maybe it’s because I work at gyms or the fact that I got an amazing deal on my own gym membership (I now pay $9 per month for the rest of my life!) or the fact that I just can’t imagine a life without exercise.  Whatever the reason, I’m always fretting about money, so it’s crazy that I didn’t think of this one!  But once it was brought to my attention, I couldn’t stop thinking of new ways to sweat for very little money!  Here’s a somewhat abbreviated list for those of you who, like me, don’t have dollar bills falling out of your pockets:   

1) Use what you have.  Now let’s start with the basics. While Kira mentioned that she didn’t love running, some of you might.  I’m guessing you already have a pair of shoes, and that’s all you need (besides yourself), so give it a try! Add in intervals by sprinting on the choruses of your workouts songs if you’re listening to music, or, if you’re not, decide on a certain number of blocks you’ll go all out for.  And there’s no shame in doing a walk-run combo if that’s what gets you moving.  If you’re still not a fan of pounding the pavement, try biking!  I’m guessing that about half of you have an old mountain bike from Target in the garage or stuck in storage somewhere.  And if you don’t have it, I bet your parents still do, so if you live close enough for you or them to drive, throw it in the trunk on the next visit and you’ll be good to go (at least until it starts snowing here in the Midwest)! 

As far as strength training goes, use your own body weight!  Pushups, squats, and situps are awesome moves that require nothing but your own fabulous self.  Once you master these, add weight with household items (as silly as it sounds, fill up old milk jugs with sand, even!) or try standing on one leg to make them harder.  If you really can’t afford a gym membership, you already have everything you need to cover all of the basics.  Trust me.   

2) Buy used.  If you don’t have a bike or other exercise gear, and buying new is out of the question, try craigslist.  Honestly, you can find anything on there, and some people are selling some pretty nice exercise equipment in the Beauty + Health section.  A client of mine bought a never-been-used wetsuit for a Tri, and I’ve even seen someone selling their gym membership for cheaper, so be on the lookout for those bikes as well as things you wouldn’t expect!  If you have a Play It Again Sports or other used sporting goods store in your area, check it out as well!  Sure, some things might gross you out to buy used, but a soccer ball or basketball or set of dumbbells is still the same, even if it did have a previous owner.   

3) Learn to share.  The things we learned in kindergarten are still valuable today.  Sharing or splitting the cost of things is a HUGE money saver.  Really want to hire a personal trainer for a few sessions?  Find a friend or two who does too, and halve your cost!  Honestly, most personal trainers (especially newer ones at big gyms who need clients desperately!), are willing to work two people out for the cost of one (sometimes a little more, but your cost is still lower than hiring one on your own), because it’s not much extra work and they’re still making the same amount of money for an hour of work.  Recruit a third friend and your individual cost will go down by a lot even if the overall price goes up a tiny bit.  (Note: with this situation, don’t expect the same individual attention you might get if it were just one or two of you, though.  When training three or four, it gets hard to focus entirely on every single person in the group.)  There are even tons of places that offer cheaper group training (like Motiv in the Chicago area) or pre-set workout plans available to their members (check out TEAMiFIT, also in Chicago). 

However, if a gym membership and split personal training sessions are still a stretch, check out some do-it-yourself programs that you can split with friends.  You buy the P90X or other workout program between four friends and have up to 3 months of workouts for next to nothing!  Do it at a different pal’s house every week to be fair, and make copies of any written instructions.  You’ll all reap the benefits!  You could also host a workout video swap, and have your friends bring all of their used CoreFusion, step aerobics, and yoga DVDS that they aren’t using anymore.  Everyone will be able to find something that they haven’t tried before, and no one loses any money!  You can always get your DVD back after letting the other person try it.   

4) Look for deals!  Call your local gyms and see if they’re running any specials and if they offer any additional discounts for students or family members or people in a certain profession.  If you really want to try a gym, this is key!  I know that when I worked at Bally, they were always offering month-to-month memberships for 20 to 30 bucks!  They might not be the fanciest gyms, but they have all of the basics and even some classes!  Basic gym is better than no gym, my friends.  Call up gyms in your area to see if they do anything similar. 

Additionally, I have found a ton of really cool stuff online by signing up for email updates from Groupon, Tippr, and Living Social Deals.  They’ve got them for all of the major cities and surrounding areas, so I bet you’ll be able to find something!  I recently bought a month of hardcore bootcamp classes for only $20 from Tippr, and I’m eyeing today’s deal on Groupon for two months of unlimited Bikram for only $39.  And for just new and cheap ideas, check out Vital Juice.  I get an email update for all sorts of fun activities, and they even do an email blast on free healthy things to do in your city! Seriously, this one is just about being resourceful!

5) Take advantage.  Are you sure there aren’t services available to you, for free, that you just haven’t been paying attention to?  Does your office hold a before-work bootcamp or fitness class to all employees?  If not, would they do something similar to lower their insurance premiums? (Ask them!  And if you’re in the Chicago area, tell them you know of someone who can lead the class!)  Is there a running group that meets nearby a few times per week?  Most groups have a website or ad on craigslist, so get to Googling!  You could even start your own by tweeting or Facebooking that you want to start a group for swimming or climbing or cross-training… whatever!  I bet you’ll get a ton of feedback from people just like you! 

Do you have a library card?  Head over to the nearest library and check out a workout video or fitness book (FYI, books usually have longer check-out periods so make sure you turn those DVDs in on time to avoid fees!) Does your local high school have a rec center or pool that’s open to the public for a small fee per visit?  Try it!  It’s like a gym, but on a pay-very-little-per-visit basis.  Does a local workout facility or yoga studio host free weekly classes that you can join in on?  I know that even my local Lululemon store has free Sunday classes right in the store!  Even if these free classes are being used to plug a business’ services or clothes, so what?  It doesn’t mean you have to buy anything!  Go and take advantage!

I’m sure there are a million other ways to sweat on the cheap (or for free!), but this is what I’ve got for now! Have you tried any of these tips?  Would you be willing to?  Got any other inspired tips for me?  Like, I said, sharing is an awesome way to get fit for free –and that includes sharing information, so if you have any more ideas, spill!

No Excuses

Woo! Yeah! That elliptical looks super exciting! TRY SOMETHING ELSE.

No excuses.  When it comes to exercise, that’s what I’m supposed to tell you, right?

Well, I would, but I know that we’re human and we’ve all got excuses when it comes to fitting in our workouts.  However, the trick to getting past those excuses is to hear them and then beat them  by using a little bit of strategy and planning.  Here are a few of the most commonly heard excuses for not exercising (some of which I may have used myself) and how to get around them.

1) Not enough time.  You work 10-hour days, you volunteer, you have a packed social life with a boyfriend, a great family, and tons of friends demanding your attention.  Oh, and we can’t forget your standing appointment with your DVR that’s recorded all of your favorite shows.  Sounds like you have a pretty full, pretty great life.  But you know what’s missing?  EXERCISE.  You manage to fit all of these other things in, but you aren’t able to squeeze in a few sweat sessions?  Grab your calendar and pencil in at least 30 to 45-minute workouts per week.  Honestly, to improve your health, that’s all it takes.  A little more if you’re trying to lose a few pounds, but if you’re already where you want to be, for less time that it takes to primp for work or happy hour, you can get your heart pumping.  And please, please, PLEASE don’t let TV be your excuse.  First of all, go ahead and say that one out loud.  It just sounds silly.  And second, if you must watch that show, why don’t you tune in while working out?  Do an at-home strength program while watching or ask the gym if they’ll turn on your show when it’s on.  You can’t be the only one obsessed with “Glee.”     

2) Not enough sleep.  Uhh, why not?  I understand that the above crazy busy life may limit your time spent snoozing, but getting enough sleep is so important!  I didn’t realize how much better I felt with more sleep until I switched jobs and stopped working 13-hour days (which is ridic, btw).  I started getting 8 or 9 hours of sleep almost every night, and my mood and my health both improved!  It takes a whole lot more to get me stressed or upset now, and I even lost a few pounds just because my body was rested enough to repair itself and do its thing.  Rachel had been telling me I needed to sleep more for the longest time, but it wasn’t until I experienced it myself that I became a true believer!  But let’s just say that you’re still struggling in the sleep department, moderate exercise will actually do nothing but wake you up! That’s the great thing about it. And if you you’re missing out on Zzz’s because you just can’t fall asleep then exercise will help with that too!  Regular activity = regular sleep schedule.  Just make sure you get your sweat on at least 3 hours before bed so you can sleep soundly.  Either way, get moving! 

3) Not feeling like you can do enough in the time that you have.  You think that that 20 minutes you have every weekday won’t do a thing, right?  Not so!  Bump up the intensity on most days, and you can really elevate your heart rate.  Try intervals in your cardio, and limit or eliminate your rest between strength sets altogether.  My favorite is treadmill intervals of 90 seconds at a steady pace with 30 second all-out sprints.  For my resistance training, I like to do supersets between my back and chest or quads and hamstrings (biggest muscle groups burn the most calories!).  You can still do a LOT in a little time.  Trust me.     

4) Not exactly loving the whole ’working out’ thing.  You’ve tried running because it’s supposed to burn the most calories, but you ended up getting bored or a case of shin splints.  You’ve tried swimming because it’s supposed to be a great full-body workout, but you ended up doing two laps and coming up gasping for air, making you feel like an athletic failure.  You tried a cardio kick class, but the instructor was just a little too peppy for your liking, you couldn’t follow the moves fast enough, and the guy behind you really could have used some deodorant.  Whatever you tried, you hated it, and you stopped working out altogether. But why?  Why did you only try that one thing and give up on exercise entirely?  There are so many options out there!  Try a yoga-cardio fusion class if you need something a little more zen.  Get a mountain bike or a pair of hiking boots and find a trail if being in the gym is just not your idea of a good time (you can even do a little resistance training outside! Squats and pushups, anyone?).  Hire a personal trainer that fits your workout style and personality if you like being in the gym and need a push, but don’t like sharing with other people.  Whatever gets you moving, do it!  And don’t limit yourself to what you see your friends or family doing.  Find what’s right for you and start sweating!

Alright, so those are the most common excuses I’ve come across, but what others have you heard (or used yourself!)? How do you combat those excuses or the ones I’ve mentioned? Spill!      

How to Rejoin the Exercising World

So recently my friend Kira tweeted this at me: Hey, have you ever written about tips for getting back into exercise (or start) when you haven’t been doing any? And I realized that, nope! I haven’t! So let’s discuss!

Now, a little background here: Kira and I have been friends since freshman year at the University of Michigan where we were thrown together in a tiny little dorm room in Bursley Hall.  Subsequently, we also ended up in the same a cappella group and the same sorority, so we realized we were going to be in this friendship for the long haul.  Anyway, while I was very much a gym devotee, Kira was not.  Don’t get me wrong, she liked to move and be active, but I don’t think she ever felt that compulsion to go sweat for 2 hours in the campus rec center every single day (plus, having a normal relationship with food along with good genes, she probably felt she didn’t need to), which isn’t necessarily such a bad thing.  But now she does want to hit the gym a little more, and I think this is a great thing.

I want you to work hard, but I don't want you to feel like death every time you finish at the gym.

I think as a lot of us are getting older (read: we’re actual adults with lives that don’t involve weekends full of beer and just a few classes to deal with), we’re realizing the importance of a regular workout routine.  And when we haven’t had one in a while – or never had one — it’s important to have a plan for getting into it.  So, here are a few guidelines for starting or getting back into regular exercise.

1) Pick something you like, or even LOVE. You all know that there are certain fitness philosophies I subscribe to, and one is that you need to sweat, and the other is that you need to do strength AND cardio.  But with all of the options out there now, there are plenty of enjoyable and creative ways to do all of these things.  Hate running?  Don’t do it! If something is more painful than enjoyable for you, then you’re going to do it approximately twice and give up on exercise altogether. So try out a lot of things, and figure out which one gets you huffing and puffing with a smile on your face!  If you detest pounding the pavement, then try a dance class or hit the pool.  Can’t stand the weight machines at the gym?  Then hire a trainer who will make it fun (or at least distract you by chatting with you while they make you squat) or take a class in which you will tell the instructor you are a newbie or just restarting a program, and plunk yourself down in the front row so that he or she can keep an eye on your form.  Whatever gets you moving and fits the three requirements (sweating, cardio, and strength) is an awesome place to start!

2) Ease your way into it. As much as you want to dive right into a 5-day-a week routine, DON’T.  I’m not saying don’t try to be active as much as you can, but think about your current level of fitness.  How long has it been since you exercised last?  What were you doing before, if anything? How does your body respond to change?  What are your goals? Is your body ready for intense workouts?  If it’s been years since you’ve exercised, and you were never really that athletic before, your body probably isn’t ready for 5-mile runs Monday through Friday. Be realistic. If you aren’t, you’ll either hate what you’re doing or you’ll be incredibly sore for days or you’ll actually injure yourself and end up sidelined for a while (read: you’ll be taking another break from exercise before you even get into your routine).  Honestly, when you’re first starting out, don’t even exercise every day! (What? Is she crazy!?) Here’s an example: I recently started running again after a little summer love affair with my bike.  I know that in the past I was able to run 6 miles no problem, but now?  Not so much.  So I devised a little plan for myself to get back into running.  I only run 3 days per week (some days only 2 miles, others about 4), and do other cardio or strength on the rest of the days.  I’ll build up from this schedule.  Whenever I’ve tried to jump right back into it previously, I’ve had ankle and stress fracture issues flare up again, and I had to stop running.  As much as I might be mentally ready to do 6 milers, I know that I’m not there physically.  And that’s OK.  I will be soon, but not if I keep pushing myself on the miles and days I run and get injured again.   **NOTE: You will probably be sore after starting up again, but don’t mistake this for a pulled muscle or another injury and just stop exercising.  Learn to know the difference.

3) Take your schedule into account. I know, I know.  I should be telling you that you should always make time for exercise.  And you really should.  But I realize that when starting a new workout regimen, it can all be a little overwhelming.  Just like I don’t want you to throw your body into a new, super rigorous routine without any preparation, I don’t want you to jump into it without considering your LIFE. Maybe 90-minute boot camps every day aren’t really going to work with your 12-hour work days.  But maybe a quick half hour on the spin bike every other day and one or two days of 20-minute strength routines on your lunch hour is something you can make time for.  (Also, see #2.  Don’t throw yourself into something intense like a 90-min bootcamp that quickly!)  Get used to your beginner routine and how it works with the time you have first, and then ramp it up from there.  Baby steps are the way to go here, and I bet that once you make a little time, you find ways to make even more to keep progressing.

4) Hire a trainer. Yes, I’m a little biased because I am one, but I’ve also been a client, and I know how much this helped me.  I also know that trainers are expensive, but if you have the means, hire one for just a session or two (or longer if you really have the means!).  What you’ll learn will help you so much in creating and sticking to a plan.  They can make sure you know proper form for strength moves and they can give you tips on how to commit to a workout routine.  Plus, making an appointment with someone almost guarantees that you’ll get your exercise in for the day!

I’m sure I could go on and on about how to start or get back into working out, but I want to hear from you!  How did you get yourself (back) into a routine?  Any tips for those who have no idea where to start? Spill!

Owning It: A Few More Confessions

So I’ve posted a couple times already about how I’m not a foodie, and on multiple occasions I’ve let you in on the not-so-secret secret that I still have body image/food issues. Then a few weeks ago, I posted myconfessions as a personal trainer.  And I’m going to post a few more here today. But unlike the confessions of my Catholic school days, I’m not going to ask for forgiveness or justify myself.  And I am most certainly not going to do penance for them.

These are a few of the things I’ve realized I need to own up to — things about myself that I need to lay out there because they are who I am and what I do, and, well, sorry I’m not sorry about them.  So what inspired this sudden show of bravado, you ask?  What made me decide to own up to all things Heather without feeling the need to explain myself?  Well my good real-life friend (we go wayyyy back, which is what I’m going to say when she becomes a ridic famous author) and blog buddy, Rachel, started the ‘Own It’ challenge, encouraging other bloggers to come out and state what they’re about, no apologies necessary.  Hmm, I thought, this is the perfect opportunity to talk about the things that I am constantly apologizing for that I really shouldn’t be.

In the past few years, I’ve noticed that my happiness factor has gone up exponentially since I stopped asking for permission so much.  And I actually remember having a conversation about this with Rachel on one of our many Starbucks dates back home in Michigan.  Last year, I told people that I was quitting my salaried desk job to become a trainer.  This year, Rachel told people she was up and moving to Texas.  We didn’t ask if these actions were OK, and we didn’t give a laundry list of reasons for why we were doing them.  And because people in general are so used to everyone (especially young women) asking if what they’re doing is right, this confused them.  You mean you don’t care what I think? Nope, or at least not enough to change my mind.  I’m forging on either way.  Anyway, inspired by that conversation and by her post on it, here are some more confessions that don’t bother my conscience one bit.  My opening declaration:

Since I’m a trainer, let’s start with something fitness related.  I hate running in the summer.  HATE. I do not like it at all.  Running in 90 degrees with 80% humidity just so I can tell people I’m a real runner?  No thanks.  I’ve been one, and maybe someday I’ll be one again, but not right now.  I like to breathe and not feel like I’m wading through the soup that is a Midwest summer.  If I run at all during the months of June, July, and August, it is at the gym or at night, and I do it because I know how many calories it burns, or sometimes because I need a change.  But you know what I would rather do for hours at a time in the summer? Bike or swim or dance or anything besides run.

Here’s another one: I am not a morning person.  Props to all of you that are, but I get pissed off when people make it seem like you are a lazy, slothful person if your internal alarm clock doesn’t have you springing out of bed at 6am.  Stop acting so damn self-righteous about it.  I get just as much accomplished as you do, but I just do it later in the day.  Give me a project to work on at 8pm and I’m way more inspired than I would be at 8am.  I like my workouts later in the day too.  I’m programmed this way, and I’m owning it.

For as much as I talk about loving the skin you’re in, I’m with Rachel on the fact that I would still like to lose weight, even if I do think I’m beautiful right now.  And as much as I talk about how unhealthy I was when I was at my skinniest (not having a period is usually a bad sign, folks), I sometimes still look at pictures and remember how much control I had and how good it felt to slide that XS or S on without a snag.  I will own that I feel that way, and I will also own that I still have some work to do, mentally and physically.

I also own that when fat talk starts with my girlfriends, I shut down.  I do not respond, or I get quite curt, all of my response being two words or less — if that.  I mostly do it because nothing about that conversation is healthy for any party involved.  We don’t need to perpetuate the cycle of caring more about our jeans size than our actual mental wellbeing.  But another part of it is that for the first time in my life, I’m not one of the skinny friends.  And that sounds catty, I know, but I know I didn’t fish for compliments even when I was the skinny friend.  It also hurts my feelings when my size-4 friends comment on how they need to ‘get rid of this flab’ because they are just ‘soooo disgusting.’ Gee thanks.  By the way, thanks for being a bitch and not thinking about anyone else’s feelings before you opened your mouth.

I also jump up on my feminist and body image champion soap boxes pretty quickly, much to the chagrin of any males in my life.  Sorry I’m not sorry.

I did a total 180 as far as careers go and quit my secure corporate job to become a trainer (with an unstable hourly wage) and a freelancer, and I put myself in a lot of debt doing so.  I also freaked my parents out and made them wonder why they paid for a bachelors degree in English and Women’s Studies (take a guess at how many times I heard, ‘So what are you going to do with that degree?’) from a good school for their eldest daughter.  I switched jobs again about a year into my gym job because it was so sales focused, and I refused to force people to buy training when they could hardly make their rent.  Sometimes I worried that I had made the wrong decision going into training.  But now I don’t regret it because I found a better fit that reminded me why I love what I do, and I love the freedom I have working at two smaller studios who really want the best for the clients.  I stumbled along the way, and I still don’t know what I’ll ultimately end up doing, but at 25, I don’t need to yet.

Even though I’m a trainer, I do not live at the gym.  And I won’t tell my clients that they have to either.  I won’t tell them they aren’t allowed to drink, because I do it, too (give me whiskey or beer, and I’m ready to go!).  I refuse to be a complete hypocrite with my clients, and I’m usually honest with them about how much I’m working out at any given time.  Also, lately, some of my workouts have taken a backseat to seeing friends or a boy.  But I’m good with this, because for a long time, it was the other way around.  I still work out, but I don’t let it take it over my life. I like this, and I own this.

So now it’s your turn — what are you owning, what have you owned, and what are you going to start owning that maybe you were afraid to before?

Gym Pet Peeve #1

So you know those things that people do at the gym that just drive you CRAZY? Well, seeing how I work in a gym allll day, I’ve got quite a few, which I plan on sharing with you periodically. Here’s the first one on my looong list:
Toothpastefordinner.com always tells the truth. 
 

 

The Siderail Treadmill Sprinter: This is most often the person who has never run ever and has decided to start recently, but doesn’t want everyone to know about his beginner status. So he cranks up the treadmill speed to as fast as (usually faster than) he can go, and sprints as hard as he can (clomping noisily as he tries not to slip off the back of the belt) for about 30 seconds. Then he hops off to the sides and hangs out there panting for the next minute and a half while the empty treadmill belt rotates. I usually want to tap these people on the shoulder and ask them if they know that the distance and calories the display reads don’t actually count if they only run a quarter of the time they’re hanging out on the machine. Lucky for everyone, thus far I’ve refrained.

 

I do want to say something about this as a trainer, though. It’s great to push yourself — it really is. My job wouldn’t exist if people didn’t want to challenge their bodies. However, you simply cannot force something that isn’t there if you want to get the results you’re looking for. You have to know what you are capable of right now and work with that. If you’re lifting, start with what you can do for 10-15 reps, not 3 (unless you’re looking to be a power lifter perhaps?). If you’re doing cardio, do it intensely, but not so intensely that 10 minutes is all you can handle. You won’t reap the benefits of exercise if you do it this way.  And you’ll just push so hard that you’ll burn out in… oh, 30 seconds.

 

Have you seen these sprint-stomp-stop exercisers at your gym?  Are you one of them? (Be honest!) And what are some of YOUR gym pet peeves?

Are Eating Disorders Contagious?

Lately at work, everyone has been sick! We all have colds right now, and it probably doesn’t help that we all hang out with each other for 14 hours at a time on very little sleep at a super germy gym. We’re totally passing it back and forth to one another.

At the same time, a lot of us here are working towards certain fitness goals and training for sports or competitions, especially with summer coming up. Being trainers, we’re all pretty committed to it, but I’m starting to get a little hyperaware of what I’m doing, how much I’m training, and what I’m eating. While I like the discipline I’m getting back, I’m also getting a little nervous about how much I’m starting to think about my training and my diet. Because the guys are constantly talking about their food and calories and how much weight they need to cut and how if they don’t puke they aren’t working out hard enough, I’ve caught myself thinking about these same things. A lot.

The thing is, I really don’t want to. Yes, I want to be healthy and make conscious choices about my food and workouts, but I don’t want it to escalate to obsession. Because I’ve been there before, and I have no desire to let being a certain weight or size completely run my life again. In college, I was so focused on keeping my weight down (at a weight that was far too low for me, in fact), that I planned out every little thing I put in my mouth (planning isn’t bad, but the level to which I did it was ridiculous), and I ended up putting so much stress on my body with exercise that my period stopped.

So I think you can understand why getting anywhere near that territory again scares me. Before, I was influenced by other people too. All of my friends being fixated on their weight and food put in my head that I should be too. I sort of ‘caught’ disordered eating habits from the women around me (and maybe society as a whole, but that’s another post). Here it’s a bunch of guys with “athletic goals,” so no one says they have eating disorders. They admire each others’ commitment, even though sometimes it clearly is disordered behavior.

Before, when I lived with all girls in the dorms and in the sorority house, it was actually a similar situation. We talked about food and calories allll the time, and girls were always giving each other tips or asking questions on how to cut calories and fill up on the smallest amount. The girls that could eat the least seemed to have a whole lot of self control and received praise, but I think we all knew it wasn’t healthy. I happened to be one of those girls for most of college. I ate “super healthy” all the time – which actually meant that I stayed away from sweets, loaded up on veggies to stay full, and ate the least amount of calories possible while running every day. But there was also a backlash from that, with my house mom telling me I looked a little too skinny and someone starting a rumor that I didn’t eat dinner at the house some nights because I didn’t want people knowing how little I actually ate (for the record, I had to work during the little half hour window they gave us for dinner at the house.)  Anyway, at one point I was living on 700-1000 calories a day (unless I drank, then it was just a little more – that’s what we call “drunkorexia,” folks), running 6-7 miles daily, and lifting a few times a week. I’m shocked I never passed out, honestly. Anyway, I convinced myself that I was just really disciplined, when in fact, I was really obsessed and had major control issues.

I do want to keep up this discipline and renewed commitment to feeling like an athlete again, but I don’t want to drive myself crazy with it as I did in the past. I already caught a cold from the guys I work with, but I’d like to avoid catching anything more serious.

What do you all think? Can you ‘catch’ an eating disorder or disordered eating from someone else? Or do you think some people are actually predisposed to EDs? Do other people influence your food and exercise choices? I really want to know how you feel about this topic, so spill!

Thursday Tip: Love the One You’re With

And by that I mean the one you’re with allll the time – YOU!

Trying to lose weight or tone up or just improve something about yourself in general? Then start liking where – and who – you are now! Instead of talking about how much you need to firm up your less-than-rock-hard abs or how you’ll be happy when you just lose those next five pounds, enjoy the progress you’re making right now. In other words, work with what ya got!
Now I’m not saying, ‘Hey, go ahead and be completely content with everything about yourself and never change,” because change is healthy, and we should all try to evolve in some way within our lifetimes. Honestly, I’d be worried if you had no desire to change anything. What I am saying is that you’re not even going to try to change if you hate everything about yourself. I’ve found that the times when I’ve made the most forward progress with my goals are the times when I’ve accepted – and even embraced – who I was right at that very moment. Use what you like as a base and go from there.
My favorite metaphor for this is so anti-feminist (since most of my readers are women) that I probably shouldn’t say, but whatevs, it works: Think of yourself like a car. (I know. Comparing the female body to a piece of machinery. Right.) If you think of yourself as a total junker that should just be scrapped for spare parts, then, well, you’ll probably treat yourself that way. Feed it junk food, let it sit around without moving it, let it rust, never try to increase its worth in any way. Yeah, that sounds like a fabulous plan for getting yourself where you want to be.
However, if you visualize yourself as a classic cruiser that just needs a few adjustments, then what do you think you’ll do? You’ll make those adjustments! Not only that, but you’ll see the potential in yourself from the beginning. So you have a dented bumper or you’re kind of a slow runner.  Why not focus on those great headlights (yeah, I just took away my own feminist card) or the fact that you can outswim everyone you know? Maybe your gas mileage isn’t so great or you want to lose those muffin tops. So focus on the fact that your brakes work perfectly and that you have killer arms.
I’m going to stop with the car references because the above is pretty much the extent of my auto knowledge, but the message here should be obvious by now: Focus on the positive, and the rest will follow. Treat yourself well – even if you aren’t exactly who or what you want to be right now – and your mind and body will respond in turn. You can’t improve yourself until you love yourself.
What do you think? Can you improve yourself if you don’t care about yourself? Do you make the most progress when you find things you really like about you? If you like yourself more, do you treat yourself better so that you can keep advancing your goals? Do you beg to differ with everything I’ve said and think I’m totally full of it? Let me know!
I like to think of myself like this classic ’57 T-Bird rather than a hoop-D with bad shocks.

Friday’s Quick Tip: Stretching

Clearly, I love Jane Fonda.
As the week comes to close and all of you weekend warriors start planning your lengthier workouts or sports for Saturday and Sunday, consider when you stretch.  Because you DO stretch, right?
I‘m going to assume that you do stretch and give you something to work on this weekend.  One of the most important things to remember is to never stretch without warming up first.  Even if you are one of those people who has stretched before working out for her entire life, I’m telling you now: get those muscles warm first!  If you don’t, your stretching could actually do more harm than good.  When you pull and push those muscles before getting the blood flowing, you run the risk of majorly injuring yourself.  Think about it this way: Stretching cold muscles is equivalent to yanking on a frozen rubber band.  The elasticity just isn’t there, but you’re trying to force it.  Personally, I have no desire to feel anything snap.    
So make sure you get moving before you loosen up!  You really can actually hold off on stretching until after the entire workout is done, but if you must stretch at the beginning of your workout, get at least a five-minute warmup in first.  Run, bike, have a dance party — doesn’t matter as long as you move it!  
I personally love stretching! What about you? After you’ve warmed up, what are YOUR favorite stretches?

January Joiners

I know the tracksuit is dead giveaway, but give the guy some credit!
Around this time of year, a big topic of discussion at the gym is all of the newcomers who flood health clubs everywhere right around January 1. The resolutions kick in when the pants don’t fit, so everyone who hasn’t been to the gym in a while signs up for a shiny new membership package or dusts off the card that’s been sitting in his or her wallet for the past 11 months. I know there are a lot of opinions on these “Resolutionaries,” so let’s discuss, shall we?

This morning I was training a client in the pool at 6:30am, a time when the gym is normally pretty dead besides the regulars. Well, not today. Even from the pool, I could tell the gym was packed. Very few, if any, cardio machines weren’t in use, and the cable machines were taken over by guys in tank tops who just couldn’t get enough of themselves in the mirrors. There were even a few more people swimming laps with me after I finished my early swim lesson. All of this new activity at the club got me thinking about how I feel about these January joiners.

In college, I dreaded coming back to my beloved gym after winter break. I just knew that all of the people who had pushed working out to the wayside the previous semester would charge in and take over every piece of equipment because the holidays had done them in. And because Michigan has a ridiculously early spring break, and my peers who had forgotten where the gym actually was would need to elliptical and bicep curl themselves into bathing suit shape by February 25th. Those of us who considered ourselves regulars were, of course, annoyed for this month and a half, because we not only knew where the gym was but — gasp — knew there were multiple gyms on campus. We pretty much just waited for the newbies to give up so we could get our precious treadmills and weight machines back.

But today, I was really thinking about it. I got kind of excited that so many people had chosen to get up at 5am to get their butts into the gym. And not just because that means more clients (although, I guess that doesn’t hurt). I was happy that so many people wanted to improve their health and follow through with those resolutions. I’m not sure what changed since college (or even since last winter when I was pissed that the lines at my neighborhood gym were even longer), but I kind of feel bad, and more than a little selfish, for wishing my peers in college would just quit on their goals before January even came to a close. And now I’m even finding a bit of inspiration in these wide-eyed first timers. I may be a regular (OK, I work at the gym, so I kind of have to be), but that doesn’t mean that I don’t have new fitness goals. I want to strength train more, build my swimming endurance back up, and increase my running mileage to where it used to be. If they can brave the gym for the first time in ages, then I can push myself a little harder in the workouts that I’m already doing. Even this morning, when swimming a mile was the last thing I wanted to do, I saw all of those folks sweating it out before work, and I knew I had no excuse. Thanks to them, I stuck it out in the pool, so I’m hoping they stick it out for the year. I hope all of the resolutionaries become regulars.

So which camp are you? Still hating on those newbies? Or do you embrace the fresh faces and encourage them to keep up the good work? I know I’ll be in the latter group this year, but tell me what you think!
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